Miracle

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I never thought there is anything more important that hope in anyone’s life. Hope can be the only single way to survival, improvement, and achievement. However, it can also mask our denial. Because we try to stay positive, we don’t realize that we are fooling ourselves; hopping that something extraordinary will happen and it will fix the problem or change the situation in our favour. There is a fine line between being hopeful and being irrational. I have a feeling that some of us (including me) are waiting for a miracle that might never happen. It just gonna push us back by preventing us to focus our energy on something more productive.

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Reza Mahani said…
Very good observation.
Staying positive can be interpreted completely differently, as staying moderate and mindful, avoiding extremes, in this form it is very different from false hope and false hopelessness both
June 10, 2010
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