tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2245492313065250468.post8598949983467330550..comments2023-07-04T07:01:48.605-04:00Comments on Just-talking-out-loud: "The Talk"Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2245492313065250468.post-8737691640557135722011-01-12T00:10:32.460-05:002011-01-12T00:10:32.460-05:00You are right. Sometimes I forget that a kid is ju...You are right. Sometimes I forget that a kid is just a kid and I have too high expectations .Daisyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12030115946414114623noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2245492313065250468.post-70688871729587661602011-01-11T10:23:51.340-05:002011-01-11T10:23:51.340-05:00Hi Daisy.
U make a good point. To add to that - ...Hi Daisy.<br /><br /> U make a good point. To add to that - to have desired effect in this approach - u must make sure u don't make harsh criticism of the child on any issue. Otherwise they will have another issue - They will think that they have low moral standing in your eyes which can be big impediment not just with parent but also in general. <br /><br /> By the way Daisy, I don't have any child { Just in case u thought I did ;-) }Deep Blue Seanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2245492313065250468.post-78269997228999623752011-01-10T13:20:38.274-05:002011-01-10T13:20:38.274-05:00Dear Deep Blue Sea,
Some people might say ignoran...Dear Deep Blue Sea,<br /><br />Some people might say ignorance is a blessing but in this case I think it can be dangerous. You are making a big assumption that your kids will grow up to have the same beliefs, values, and life style as you have. This is not always true. Whether you like it or not your kids will be exposed to sex and drugs. There will be some peer pressure involved. I think it is the parents’ responsibilities to educate their kids by providing them with right information and reasons why you should do something or not. Then, it should be up to the kids to decide how they want to live. <br /><br />Also, going back to Lotus point, taking about sex is liberating. It can bring the parent and the kid closer to each other and opens up the chance for the kid to be more comfortable with their parents discussing issues that might bother them. You want to be a firend to your kid as well as a parent if you really want them to come to you when they are in trouble. <br /><br />Another thing you should consider is that you don’t want your kids to ridicule themselves among their friends by their ignorance. <br /><br />I have no kids. So, I'm not sure how right I am about this. But this would be the approach that I would have taken if I had a kid.Daisyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12030115946414114623noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2245492313065250468.post-86871072499392155672011-01-10T10:33:06.624-05:002011-01-10T10:33:06.624-05:00U know somehow u don't need the talk if u r br...U know somehow u don't need the talk if u r brought up in a certain way and also receive good basic education. If u r in general made to be disciplined and made to follow the rules u will learn for urself to be wise..Deep Blue Seanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2245492313065250468.post-25236715483032268192011-01-09T22:52:01.904-05:002011-01-09T22:52:01.904-05:00BTW, the video was funny, thanks for sharing :)BTW, the video was funny, thanks for sharing :)Reza Mahanihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07341891132329892562noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2245492313065250468.post-16584553534528714982011-01-09T22:45:33.148-05:002011-01-09T22:45:33.148-05:00We do not have kids, so ... and I agree with your ...We do not have kids, so ... and I agree with your points. In addition, I think talking about sex is liberating, not just with kids but even for a couple (married or not)Reza Mahanihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07341891132329892562noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2245492313065250468.post-46775833090012043052011-01-09T16:31:16.942-05:002011-01-09T16:31:16.942-05:00كاملا موافقم .هميشه از صحبت كردن در اين مورد با بچ...كاملا موافقم .هميشه از صحبت كردن در اين مورد با بچه ها وحشت داشتم ولي حالا مي بينم بهترين راه اين هست كه از ما بشنوند . خوشبختانه كتاب هاي راهنماي والدين خيلي خوبي هست و مي تونيم با مشاور هم در اين مورد مشورت كنيم .راستش با اين وجود هنوز هم جامعه ي فعلي ايران و خانوادههاي ايراني با اين موضوع كنار نيومدندآناnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2245492313065250468.post-70871615301463857622011-01-09T13:40:23.885-05:002011-01-09T13:40:23.885-05:00Finally! Great post like always and the length of ...Finally! Great post like always and the length of the talk is making up for 7 days of not writing :))<br />Miss you tones!Aftab banohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07580210621275215779noreply@blogger.com